Why is it so hard to ask for what we want?
What gets in our way?
How can we learn to know what we want, trust in our own desires, and communicate that to others? 

Join me for a weekend guided practice laboratory to learn skills from the Wheel of Consent®. The Wheel of Consent® is a practise based on the idea of consent as an agreement between people, with a clear understanding who is doing and who an action is for. This practice allows us a much deeper engagement with understanding our own wants and desires and our boundaries and limits.

This workshop is about:

• Making choices – learning how to choose for yourself
• Waking up sensuality – feeling and following pleasure
• Understanding the dynamics of giving and receiving and taking them apart
• Understanding who is doing and who it is for – because they are different
• Gaining skills of empowerment and communication – noticing, valuing, and trusting desires, having the courage to ask for what you want, and feeling safe enough to receive and/or saying no or yes

At the end of this weekend, you will:

• Have a deeper understanding of how to know what it is you want
• Be able to trust and value your desires
• Better know in your body your authentic “yeses” and “nos”
• Be more awake to the pleasure of touch
• Have some tools to communicate your wants and your limits to others
• experience how much fun it is to navigate fullhearted with others

This workshop is for people, who

• think of themselves, they can easily say Yes and No
• think of themselves, they hardly can feel a true Yes and No
• want to strengthen their consent muscle
• want to create more ease in their life and with others

It is for

• individuals
• couples of all sorts. Please attend to your agreements with your partner beforehand
• queers, trans and genderqueer folks
• cisfolks who question binaries in general

No prior experience necessary. For those who have been exposed to the „Wheel“, and those who haven’t, there are always new levels of awareness to be found.

This might sound like a workshop about touch, actually it is about choosing. You can attend even though you know already you do not wanna touch anyone at all, and this might change or not.

Ready to join?

Location: Zossenerstr. 31, Remise backyard, 10967 Berlin

Dates and times: march 27 – 29, 2026
Friday 18.00 – 20.30
Saturday 10.00 – 18.00 (lunch break 13:00 – 15:00)
Sunday 10.00 – 16.30 (lunch break 12:30 – 14:00)

Cost:
This is the first exercise of the course: The „Payment from the heart“. It sounds like sliding scale, but works different.
First step: You decide, if you wanna participate at all.
Take three deep breaths, asking your heart „Hej sweetie, is this something we would love to attend?“
If the answer is „HELL YES“, then ask your heart what is possible for you to pay.
220€ Minimum for you
280€ is sustainable for me
320€ My long-term edge-of-sustainable revenue (not necessarily very profitable), means f.i. I would be able to pay running costs and having some money on the side for the times I am sick and not able to work. It also allows me to be more generous with the „Food and shelter“ rate.
You can also pay „in – betweens“.
FOOD AND SHELTER: If you live in an economy, or are simply in a financial situation, where spending 190€ might mean you can’t afford food or keeping a roof over your head, you are invited with an open heart to choose an amount lower than the minimum. If this is your situation, I am serious about welcoming you.

However you and your heart decides is okay with my heart.

Language: English/German as needed (no permanent translation)

Please register here and don´t hesitate to ask any question at: mehr(at)magictouch-radicalconsent.com

COVID-19/Health Policy:
If you feel sick, please stay at home. If this happens last minute, you will get a spot in one of my next workshops. I ask you to test youself before each day of the workshop.

Geschichten unserer Körper mit den Sternen verweben

In der tiefsten Dunkelheit des Jahres öffnen wir gemeinsam einen Raum für Ruhe, Verbindung und Transformation.
Dieser Workshop lädt queere Menschen und ihre Verbündeten ein, die Qualität dieser besonderen Nacht bewusst zu erleben – als Schwelle zwischen dem Alten und dem Neuen.

Gemeinsam:
✨ kommen wir in Kontakt mit der stillen, tiefen Kraft der Winterzeit
✨ finden wir Anker und Orientierung für herausfordernde Zeiten
✨ formulieren Wünsche und Visionen für das kommende Jahr – für dich, deine Community und das große Ganze
✨ lassen wir Altes los und heißen Neues willkommen, getragen von der unterstützenden Kraft der Gruppe

Ein Tag, um dich zu zentrieren, zu verbinden und gestärkt in das kommende Jahr zu gehen.

Was Dich erwartet:
✨ körperbezogene und kreative Übungen
✨ Gute Gesellschaft
✨ Langsamkeit
✨ Am Ende des Tages an der Feuerschale sitzen (falls kein Regen)

Für wen?
✨ Dieser Tag ist für queers, trans*, genderfluids, agenders, nonbinaries aller Art und ihre Verbündeten, die sich in einem achtsamen und herzoffenen Rahmen begegnen wollen.
✨ Wenn Du Dir unsicher bist, ob Du gemeint bist, kontaktiere uns bitte.

Wann?
✨ 21. Dezember 2025, 12 – 19 Uhr (Pause 15 – 16)

Wo?
✨ SPARK Kollektiv, Markgrafendamm 20, 10245 Berlin

Mit wem?
✨ Puma Höflich und Niklas Brochhagen

Zugang und Barrieren:
✨ Gruppengrösse: höchstens 10 Menschen
✨ Der Ort verfügt über eine Rampe und hat eine rollstuhlgerechte Toilette. Assistenzpersonen zahlen nichts. Bitte gib Bescheid, wenn Du eine Assistenzperson mitbringst
✨ Es kann zu Körperkontakt kommen und du entscheidest in jedem Moment, wie Du eine Übung mitmachen möchtest
✨ Langsamkeit wird explitzit eingeladen
✨ Es wird zu bestimmten Zeiten Musik gespielt und Du kannst den Raum jederzeit verlassen
✨ Es gibt einen Ruhe/Rückzugsraum

Kosten?
✨ Bezahlung von Herzen: zwischen 110 – 160€.

Bitte melde Dich hier an